382. The Devil’s Wedge
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Are you familiar with the legendary tale of the Devil's Auction? It's an intriguing story with a powerful lesson, particularly relevant for athletes aiming high. Imagine Satan displaying his wares for sale – the sharp sword of jealousy, the fearsome dagger of fear, and the strangling noose of hatred, each demanding a steep price. Yet, gleaming on a regal purple pedestal, a worn wedge stands out. This wedge holds the devil's ultimate power – the power of doubt.
Among all the vices, the devil cherishes doubt the most. Why? Because it's the one that can paralyze even the strongest. While jealousy, fear, and hatred may drive an inexperienced soul to act recklessly, doubt quietly steals your motivation and drive, leaving you stranded.
But listen closely, for this doesn't have to be your tale. Unfortunately, it's a path often taken. Only when we recognize doubt as a form of self-pity can we rise above it. It's the moment we assess our situation and choose to act, to turn adversity into progress. The answer to doubt is productive action.
Consider the story of Jocko Willink, the founder of Echelon Front. He cultivated the habit of exclaiming, "Good!" whenever events unfolded, “good” or “bad'“. Even when faced with impending disaster, he greeted it with a smile and those words. Then, as his peers and troops stared in disbelief, he charged into the issue, finding the silver lining. Every situation harbors elements that can be turned to advantage, and he acted on them.
Yes, everyone encounters days when nothing seems to go right. But within each challenge, something positive can be found. Embrace the idea that even amidst adversity, there's an opportunity waiting to be seized. Self-pity and inaction only deepen the rut. The rational path is to reassess and move forward.
Successful individuals use downs to evaluate their methods and approach. A dry spell forces us to examine what we do, why we do it, and if there's a better way. As Emerson noted, adversity teaches us.
Remember, doubt frequently follows a crisis. Crises are crossroads – they lead either upward or downward. We ascend from crises through constructive action, while sinking occurs through self-pity and dwelling on problems. Discouragement is a test; those who refuse it evolve, finding smoother seas beyond the storm.
When you face doubt, remember three essential truths. Firstly, it's often a form of self-pity, an emotion best discarded. Its antidote is action. Secondly, every situation that causes doubt harbors a chance for growth and future success. Find the silver lining. Lastly, keep it in perspective. What appears catastrophic now will likely fade in importance. Adopt the long view; momentary setbacks won't defeat you.
Doubt’s wedge might press on us, but we have the power to break free and leverage it for growth. When the temptation to feel discouraged arises, echo the spirit of Jocko Willink. Declare, "Good," and uncover the hidden opportunities.
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